Something I think people sometimes obsess over is normalcy and perfection. Let me start off by saying that neither one of them exist, they are simply a perception, not an actuality. Consider this: take a person who seeks perfection, someone who gets nervous when their grade in school drops below 95. I'm sure some of you guys know someone like that. What we see as perfection, to them, is normal, because it is a habit of theirs. Now take someone who wants to be normal. They seek so much to change themselves to fit in with others. In their minds, the normal people they want to be seem perfect.